Girl You Gotta Understand by particularshard

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‘If you two can talk about the ex as an important part of your partner´s *past*, that is quite healthy. You shouldn´t have to pretend that nobody else ever existed in each others´ lives.

However, if your partner talks about her ex constantly, and especially if she compares you to him, then it´s time to address the situation. The main focus of you both should be your current relationship. This current relationship is unique, and has its own strengths and weaknesses. To compare it to any other relationship is asking for trouble. It´s time to really accept that the other relationship is done with, and that this one in your hands should be focused on.’




Girl You Gotta Understand
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Please don't think that I argue for the sake of the conflict,
That hasn't been me for at least a couple years
But don't you know I'll have trouble stayin cool on the calm shit
When you tell me 'don't get stuck on my fears?'
Because I used to be a Proud Boy growing to
A Proud Man
But lately I'm just Proud
And so as not to be a cowed Boy Ima be a loud Man
Because these are the states I'm allowed.
However underneath the beef my chief belief remains
That there must be a damn good reason for all the pain
And like the rain, you can see such reasons coming at you from where land meets sky -
Baby I'll be damned if I cry
Because I lied to myself and said things were cool
Just so I wouldn't have to argue with you
Over the years I've decided,
And Pardon the rule
That keeping up a lie can be harder than Truth
And if the proof
Is in the pudding
Than shouldn't we get to eating?
I don't know about you, but I don't stress over the fleeting.
Even, if the stress is what makes the thing leaving
I'd be remiss to sit pissed and quiet while I'm seething
Then grieving
All those regrets I could have set right yet ripe time was never the right time -
Like tryin to take your shooter without the right lime
It would pain me to a level just bordering on a crime
So look, i'm not the jealous type or the overzealous type
Unless of course I feel you try to gull a fella right?
Or as in this case, you can't leave the past alone,
And frankly can't cut ties with the cats you boned
But time has shone that isn't bad per se
Still I don't wanna hear about these guys every fucking day -
Especially because if they get in my way
I won't hesitate to knock they asses to next may
So like Aaliyah back in the day, Hey
'We Need a Resolution,'
Things have to adapt or die -
That's just evolution
And all my elocution
Can't change that fact
And it would take a revolution to change how I react,
To the way people act
And I'm not sure I'd want to
So just apply some tact
And don't prematurely end the hunt boo....